14 Aug

Hey guys, welcome to today’s Sunday Guest. I hope you enjoyed @cikk0’s post yesterday. Today though, we shall tone down the humour, wit and sarcasm and read something different.
Our guest marks her birth today so do well to wish her a happy birthday while commenting. Welcome with me to My scroll, @Ibetapassmynebo

#np Elton John – Sacrifice… For some reason, My dad loves this song. Why? I don’t know. I just laugh in my mind and hope never to sacrifice my “yahuza” chicken for him…I Kent!
By the way, what you are about to read is a true life story. I don’t do fiction. I am not James Cameron…I am Amy Nwunye-Donjazzy…famzing right? I know..just like that eczema will famz with your teeth till death do you both part.

*Is the Mic on?*… August 14th…it is my birthday today and I am supposed to be partying hard right? Blowing candles, making silent wishes, tearing gift boxes right? Right! First of all, thank you KeLvin for allowing me take over your blog today. I know I am supposed to be funny and all but I am sorry because I am going to disappoint your readers! You wanna know why? Simple…. “PAY ME” *in odika baboon’s voice*…if you think it is easy to make people laugh then why do you have to pay JuLius and ALibaba (withAnL) to crack your ribs? Of course some of you would say you won’t pay such amount but buy the CD from Ejiro or you will watch it Free on HiTV…shebi u go still pay Nepa Bill?… You see nothing is free and I am not indebted to make you laugh. Even the udeme wey my papa shack when he knack my mama during the night of my conception was not free!!!

As we were, every year on my birthday I take out time to reflect on things that have occurred, my many mistakes, favors, opportunities, family, relationships, everything. Trust me, I have gone through a lot and sometimes I am tempted to question God, but I still wan go heaven, so quietly I dey mellow! I got inspired to write about “Sacrifice”. Sacrifice, (Not “EBO” ohh), i believe, is very subjective to each individual. That is; what is “sacrifice” to Lanre could mean sharing his sunday rice and chicken with John. To Henry, it could mean giving Chinelo his last 3k for her BIS. To Efe, it could be looting xmas clothes from Primark for Georgina knowing he could be deported and to Femi, it could mean using his Lunch Money to pay for Diana’s transport fee and it goes on (no it’s not who you think it is).

I grew up knowing that Jesus Christ sacrificed his life for us on the cross of calvary to pay for our sins. We also heard of those who lost their lives trying to save others drowning in recent floods, We hear of NEPA officials getting electrocuted on Electric Poles. Many would say, “I can’t kill myself for anyone oh, I can’t drink panadol for any person, I can’t give up my last yamarita for even my best friend..” yadi yadi yada… We hear you! I used to be the dean of that Faculty but something happened some years back.

I sacrificed part of my freedom, my future, my life’s blueprint, and even my destiny! I used to be a student of Uni-Ilorin. In my 4th year, I had this friend In my department and NO, we were not close but we hung out couple of times. It was time for our first semester examination and I went to collect a textbook from her when she received a call from home informing her that her “fiance” was attacked by armed robbers and shot dead on his way to meet her family to finalise wedding plans.
She was devastated, wept forever and wanted to leave school. I tried to calm her down reminding her it was our final year and the issue of extra year should never be an option. Even at that, she had a carry over course in two days.

I checked on her the next day and was told she had been admitted in the hospital. I felt really bad for her and took it upon myself to write the carry over course for her. A very stupid and risky decision I must say, but I decided to “sacrifice” everything at that time, just to give her enough time to get better.

On the day of the exam, I went in, finished up and when it was time to submit, somehow I got caught! It happened so fast but I was quick enough to shade out her matric number in order not to implicate her.
There, an exam-malpractice form was filled for me and all I could think of was the wonderful story I would tell my family and the amount of “bulala” and slaps I would receive and possible “dis-owning”.
I faced displinary panel two weeks later. I was told If I confessed who I wrote for, we would both go on suspension for a year otherwise I alone, would be rusticated. I refused to be a “RAT” so I decided to damn the consequences and serve the punishment alone. I went out, called my family one by one and reported myself. I almost lost my dad that day because he was driving when I called and he almost had an accident. I was called back in and handed my rustication letter. I tried hard to fight back the tears but sighting my friend crying, I let a drop roll down my cheeks, smiled, hugged her and wished her success in her exams and told her never to blame herself for my action!

To my surprise, my family gave me a warm welcome and promised to get me back into school that year and they did. I got admission into another Federal University barely after a month. I still kept in touch with my friend and was at her wedding in March early in the year. I graduated about a month ago with a first class ( I know…I am smart like that ๐Ÿ™‚ ) and awaiting service!

The moral of the story- SACRIFICE. A goal-driven individual as I am, who works with time frame, never believed I would find myself in such a self-inflicted situation. I have tried using that “every disappointment is a blessing” talk but it never worked. But hey….this post would have never come up… So ยฏ\..(โ€ขอก.ฬฎ โ€ขอก )../ยฏ

By the way, I am not saying you should slap your boss tomorrow at work because he was yelling at your “office P”, neither am I saying you should Jump in front of Lorry in the name of Bruno… All i am saying is that you should sacrifice your last unit on your phone and call your family and friends in England make sure they are safe and remind them on what items to loot, I am saying you should sacrifice that money for Vodka and get me a birthday gift…OK really I am just saying we should learn to stand up for the pregnant woman who clearly is heavy and has oedema, that you should give that last “baba blue” to the bus conductor, that you should let go of the “1/10” of your salary, whatever sacrifice means to you….Just do it ๐Ÿ˜€

Ps: pls sacrifice your credit and call or text me…or your time to DM me to wish me a happy birthday…I will not tolerate “HBD…LLPN…GBY” thank you.


Posted by on August 14, 2011 in SunDaY GuEsT


34 responses to “SacRiFicE

  1. @1Demola

    August 14, 2011 at 1:58 pm


  2. @TheRealAdonye

    August 14, 2011 at 1:59 pm

    HBD @Ibeta.. Btw, Am I 1st?

  3. Kemmiiii

    August 14, 2011 at 1:59 pm


  4. isetfiretotherain

    August 14, 2011 at 2:03 pm

    Hahahahahahaha! Amy what is this Henry and Chinelo affair eh?
    Nice story. Luv ya and happy birthday aaggain. :*

  5. papyrusczar

    August 14, 2011 at 2:04 pm

    I like. It’s thought provoking. Happy Birthday again

  6. iamsamsie

    August 14, 2011 at 2:04 pm

    Wow..that’s most touching
    U are quite brave..

  7. BoukkieO

    August 14, 2011 at 2:07 pm

    Wow. This is deep. I’m still learning to be a giver in every sense of it. Congratulations Ibeta, and happy Birthday.

  8. Purple_posh

    August 14, 2011 at 2:18 pm

    Happy Birthday @ibetapassmynebo ๐Ÿ™‚

  9. yemijohnson

    August 14, 2011 at 2:19 pm

    @ibetapassmynebo wish u d best birthday yet. You made me add a new principle to my book of life lessons (not that i don’t sacrifice)

  10. esquire

    August 14, 2011 at 2:21 pm

    Happy Birthday!!!… are exceptionally brave oh! I cldnt even pull that off even if I tried n I wld ve hated the girl!

  11. terdoh

    August 14, 2011 at 2:21 pm

    So, you’re the Naija chick in Heroes! I thought you looked familiar!

    Happy Birthday Ibeta. We love you!

    • young J.

      August 14, 2011 at 3:15 pm

      Lmao … Mehn so wetin go be her ability?

  12. Daisy

    August 14, 2011 at 2:27 pm

    Wait! This is not fiction yeah? Oh wow! That is all I can say.

  13. Purple_posh

    August 14, 2011 at 2:33 pm

    Wow! I am touched…

  14. truth

    August 14, 2011 at 2:39 pm

    The moral of the story is lost on me. Ur example of sacrificing for someone is totally twisted. Doin something wrong and getting caught is nt sacrificing, its stupid. Now u hv put the guilt of ur rustication on a girl who did not send u message ooo. U only sacrificed your education for ur hero complex.

  15. Genesis

    August 14, 2011 at 2:46 pm

    LOOOOL!! Happy Birthday Amy. This tale she just spilled Casually like this… It’s a really Big deal O. Granted Oloyede fucked a lot of guilty people over, but to willingly put oneself out in d open like that for another human is nothing short of Divine. Man, this post has me thinking deep. And my small mind is shallow. ๐Ÿ˜ฆ

  16. @demmylee

    August 14, 2011 at 2:52 pm

    Woah! I jez finished from Unilorin and I know how fings can get. You must’ve been through great deal. On the plus side, you have a friend who owes you forever and you came out wiv a first class (which isn’t beans btw)…Happy Birthday! ๐Ÿ™‚

  17. cecenostockings

    August 14, 2011 at 3:01 pm

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!! *throwing confetti* ๐Ÿ˜€

    Now going to read

  18. lade

    August 14, 2011 at 3:07 pm

    Superwoman juh….. Happy birthday … HavE a super year .ฮฐ deserve it juh…..

  19. cecenostockings

    August 14, 2011 at 3:17 pm

    Wow. ๐Ÿ˜

  20. MsBukonla

    August 14, 2011 at 3:18 pm

    You are a heroine with a crazy sense of humour. Fiercely loyal too, a good friend that sticketh closer than a brother. And you deserve to have the very best in life.
    I feel some connection with this story but I’m very sure my parents would have killed me. No time!
    So many sweet lines in this post (but that is not why we’re here)
    Have a very happy birthday, babe and keep lighting up our worlds.

  21. young J.

    August 14, 2011 at 3:19 pm

    @ibetapassmyNebo Happy Birthday …wishin u long life and God’s Blessings Everything u wish yaself

  22. @1Demola

    August 14, 2011 at 3:19 pm

    Aaaawww, I loved this. Bet… I can’t risk that kind of tn oh!! My Dad will disown me, we r 11 in our fam & he hs disowned 2 previously….no tym. For your bday gift, I’ll love to send you airtime sha. Buh I dunno ow I’ll get it to you. Lovely stuff

  23. Henry

    August 14, 2011 at 3:26 pm

    Since Amy has codedly ask….I shall now send Chinelo my last 3K for her BIS…..I shall sacrifice my pocket for this birthday wish for Amy. Chinelo, I want a receipt for this transaction.

  24. ibetapassmynebo

    August 14, 2011 at 3:26 pm

    @truth did u miss d line where I wrote “stupid”?? Plus I did not say
    Anyshud do anythn risky…or stupid… Tnx for readin

    Thanks y’all for ur bday wishes…y’all rock :* :*

  25. bolouere

    August 14, 2011 at 4:09 pm

    Happy bday ma’am,nice one too!

  26. coolprincee

    August 14, 2011 at 7:59 pm

    Happy birthday man….heart melting story…pls tell me it isn’t true…if it is you indeed are a hero
    *saluting in military fashion*

  27. Georgeenah (@georgeenah)

    August 15, 2011 at 12:04 am

    This is ur 2nd post I’m reading and I’m…….
    Btw,send Efe to an upscale designer store next time.

  28. Wealth Adebayo

    August 15, 2011 at 12:13 am

    You are super nice! Happy belated birthday.

  29. Slim

    August 15, 2011 at 12:35 am

    Happy birthday Ibeta.
    Your write-up is…interesting.

  30. kitkat

    August 15, 2011 at 4:00 am

    You sure know how to go hard for your fwends. Happy birthdaaaay ๐Ÿ™‚

  31. @EmmCrystal (MissVersatile)

    August 15, 2011 at 7:22 pm

    Awww…happy belated birthday….my heart already skipped when i read ‘unilorin’…how best can one jump d lagoon wivout a life jacket?..bbz,u put in way more dan sacrifice, sumfng rarely done( or even thot of)…intersetng piece…well done.(I humbly sacrifice one of d very best of d-flag tops to u..coming soon)

  32. kblewin

    August 16, 2011 at 1:02 pm

    first, Happy birthday… tho e don pass but Happy buyday.
    2nd, ur parents try ooo. My popsy go just tell u say u don start life be that, bye bye–eee.
    Anyways, i cant say i’d emulate you if faced with a similar situation(i know i cant) cos it was reckless and kinda stupid but it was also something out of this world

  33. musingsofagidimallam

    August 16, 2011 at 3:13 pm

    I already wished u happy birthday, so no need again abi.

    Anyways, lovely “story”. Good thing I brought some beans *brings out his take away pack of ewa agonyin to eat with the dodo*. Hmmmn…delicious.

    Seriously tho, it’s a message we all need to hear from time to time. Good job Amy, nice one Kelvin.


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